Divorce is hard, there's no question about it. Not only has your
marriage ended but, most likely, your lifestyle is undergoing some
drastic changes also. This is especially true if you are forced to
leave the place that was home to you and your family.
Depending on your particular situation, you may find that moving into
an apartment is your only option. Many times it's hard to think of an
apartment as home after you've been accustomed to living in a house
surrounded by family. But, if you choose your apartment wisely, you
may find it'll become a cozy, comfortable haven.
Take some time to select your apartment.
Remember, this is going to be your new home. Don't rush the selection
process. Decide how much you can afford to spend for rent and look at
as many apartments in that range as you can. Location should be one of
your prime considerations. Your life is complicated enough right now,
don't make it worse by choosing an inconvenient location where
commuting becomes a problem.
If your children will be visiting regularly be sure your apartment is
large enough to let them feel at home. If possible, select an
apartment with a room just for them. Let them have a hand in
decorating it so they'll feel a part of it....

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